March 15, 2010

Today is the one year anniversary of K joining our family. It has in many ways been a very short year and a very long one. It does feel like we have always been a family of four. In a most fitting way, K began his day at the eye doctor. This was followed by therapy, a trip to Chuck E. Cheese, and then dinner with both sets of grandparents and Uncle Don.

The blog may take a prolonged hiatus. It is harder to comment on our daily lives without revealing so much the kids are embarrassed. They are growing up so much and I want them to feel safe emotionally around us. They still tickle me and test me and sometimes I want to relay the latest drama, but I don't want to betray them. If/when we ever travel again, we will reboot, but for now, a break is in order.

March 15, 2009

I am so ready for the grass to be this green again!

My blogging enthusiasm has once again taken an hiatus. We have falling into a busy routine. We have some form of therapy every day of the week. There has been lots of progress. We were watching video from last Easter a couple of weeks ago and K doesn't even run the same. He has much better use of his left arm and is so much more steady on his feet. I think it has been so gradual that I didn't realize how far he had come. His physical therapist told me they are ready to increase his difficulty, which is fantastic. It's amazing to see how far he has come.

We plod along with our third adoption. Nothing really to report on that front. It has been suggested we select an "L" name, then the kids would be, in order of adoption, J,K,L. I think we should be selecting an "I" name, because they would be K,J,I in descending order of age.

We have scheduled our 12 month post-placement visit, which seems unbelievable. A whole year (well, technically 11 months)!

We are still big fans of dress up around here. Below the duo sport their latest aquisitions. We're pretending that's not a Dora dress. Surely there is some branded character who has not made an appearance in our house!


-- Post From My iPhone

I fully intended to be a better blogger this year. Well, at least update once a week, but here we are, three weeks into the new year and I have yet to do a new post. Today is a good day to start, I suppose. It's hard, though, to always have something exciting to say. Things around here continue to improve. K is doing a lot of therapy each week and we are seeing improvement in many areas. It's hard to believe that we are fast approaching our one year anniversary with him. The year has really flown. It's even harder to believe we are approaching our three year anniversary with J. Wow! I can't even remember life without kids anymore. I think that I had a cleaner, quieter house, but, clean, quiet houses are boring!

Happy New Year

The year is coming to an end. It's been quite an amazing year around here. I've been meditating on a new verse, Psalms 30:10-12 "Hear, O Lord, and be merciful to me. O Lord, be my help. You have turned my wailing into dancing, you have removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy that my heart may rejoice before you and be not silent. O Lord my God, I will give you thanks forever." The Lord has done this in our lives. We have had some very dark moments this year, but our pain has turned to joy, our sadness to rejoicing. I am eternally grateful to Him and owe Him all the praise, and more.

While we were in China in March, we had the opportunity to visit the Philip Hayden Foundation and meet some of the children living there. I learned today that the young lady pictured in the pink hoodie passed away this month. It breaks my heart that there are so many children in such desperate need of families. I want to bring them all home!

Christmas has come to an end. It's hard to believe last Christmas we were anxiously waiting to receive our final approval to adopt K. And now we are celebrating Christ's birth with him. We are truly blessed to have two wonderful children who bring us such joy and laughter each day. They have made our world so much fuller and I cannot imagine life without them.

We are having a fun, busy Christmas around here. I never did get them to sit still for a Christmas photo. Maybe on Christmas Day they will sit still for a picture. Okay, maybe not.


K had a school Christmas program that was a lot of fun. His class sang "Christmas don't be late". Each class did a song and the older kids did two songs. It was very fun to see all the children sing.

We loaded up for our annual trip to Bellingrath Gardens on Sunday. Phil proposed to me there and we really love it. It is so beautiful with all the different lights. I can't imagine their light bill!

The Christmas season has begun. Thus far we've decorated our tree, made cookies and had the Children's Choir Christmas program. J was an angel and I don't think there has ever been a more excited angel. She was thrilled about wearing a white dress and wings. K wasn't quite ready for a program. The kids did a really great job.

Bonus points if you can name the character on J's dress.

We had a wonderful Thanksgiving this year. We went to Dreamy and Granddaddy's house with the whole crew and really enjoyed it. We put up the Christmas tree, an activity both kids loved. They keep asking when Christmas is. I need to get some advent calendars for them to count down with.

I have yet to download (or is it upload?) the photos from the weekend, but they will come.

I've been ruminating on Jer 29:11-14 for about 2 weeks. Not just the "God has plans" for you part, but that this is from a letter written to exiles telling them to settle down, build houses, make roots. They are not where they want to be, but God tells them, "this is my plan". The section ends with a promise to bring them back, but in between, He tells them to seek His face, seek it with all their hearts. It reminds me that there is always hope and that there is always comfort in seeking the Lord earnestly and honestly.

We went downtown Wednesday for the Veteran's Day Parade. We saw all our favorite things--Azalea Trail Maids, Firetrucks and Grandma and Paw Paw. It was a lot of fun. We also got to see the governor, which was really cool.

Our life seems to get busier and busier with more and more things to do. I suppose this only gets worse as they get older?

We had a great time at the church's fall festival. J got to jump and jump and jump. She played some of the games this year and came home with her Easter bucket full of candy. Last year she jumped all night and came home with about five pieces of candy. I guess those days are over.

K had a blast. He played every game, some of them multiple times. He caught on fast to all the candy to be given out. He jumped and got a close look at the horses. He didn't ride one, though.

The pictures below are from the church picnic a couple of weeks ago. K got to ride in the pastor's jeep. In girl talk, it is an army green one. In boy talk, it is a restored one. I don't remember the model year. K talked about the ride for a long time and is totally ready to go again. Totally ready to drive...



I am doing a ladies Bible study at church this fall. It always intrigues me how each person will get something completely different out of a set of homework. We each have such different histories and perspectives. It has been insightful and enlightened to hear so many different voices.

We tried something new around our house this week--pumpkin carving. It was a first for the kids and daddy, too. J did not like the feel of the pumpkin insides. K thought it was great. I think they turned out pretty well.

I heard a song today that I've probably heard many times before, but never really listened to the words. It is called 'What it Feels Like", by FFH. The song is about having your perfect life fall apart and relying solely on God for everything, turning to Him and following His leading. What it feels like to find the peace and comfort of a loving Father. I think I noticed it today because the Bible study I'm doing was reflecting upon John 6:66-69, where Jesus asks the disciples if they want to leave Him, too. Peter responds, 'To whom shall we go, Lord? You have the words of life.' I love these verses. They remind me that even when life is falling apart, God is still sovereign and He remains the source of life.

Baby J, 2006

Today I was thinking about the preparations for our first trip to China. I saw a blog with a list of 10 important things to take to China that included Ziplock baggies. I dutifully packed two boxes worth of baggies for our trip, but I never did figure out what I was suppose to do with them. The boxes came back from China, crushed from being packed in a suitcase, but still carrying a full complement of bags. In retrospect, it is kind of funny. My entire parenting experience feels like those Ziplock baggies sometimes. I do "the right thing", not always sure why I do it, often failing miserably in the process. I try to fit the children into the mold of other people's children, dragging them to swim class, ballet, gymnastics, etc, forgetting they are unique individuals with unique needs. I also forget they were created by God, forged in His image, with His plan for them. I forget He blessed us with these wonderful creations, and that He has a plan for us in this process as well. I often feel crushed from the process, but I know God has not abandoned us; He is not silent and He will bring us through.

We have made our first trip to the Pumpkin Patch. J loves the pumpkins. She talks about the pumpkin patch all year long. More than she talks about Christmas. She can tell you event-wise where it falls in the year. She can tell you she got bitten by ants last year and to watch out for the ants. She is sad when they go away. She is already planning her next outing to the pumpkins, as well as what size stroller we will need to carry her new acquisition. I love seeing the world through her eyes for awhile!