Today we visited the orphanage where Julianna stayed while she waited for us. We went with another family, whom we've gotten to know and like during our trip. Needless to say none of us were very optimistic when we got in the van for the hour-plus trip to Gaoming.
When we got there we were greeted by the two nannies we had met on Gotcha Day last week. And of course they tried to get Julianna and the other child to come to them. They would not. Yay! I for one had half expected Julianna to desert us. But the whole time we were there she stayed in mommy's arms, almost clinging for dear life. Bonding? We think so.
Julianna's crib.
After the visit we had lunch in the area, the best meal I've had since we've been here. Here's a strange thought: here in China there are no "chinese" restaurants. There's just "restaurants". It's a point to ponder.
Anyway, after lunch we sought out Julianna's finding place. A Market about thirty minutes away from the orphanage, I believe to the West. I was kind of disoriented by the rain and smog.
On the ride home, Julianna went to sleep, and upon waking had a terrible, horrible cry. It hurts to remember. There was nothing we could do to console her. I think she must have dreamed she was back at the orphanage and when she woke in a strange van she was overcome with grief. Who knows? But it was heart-wrenching for all of us.
She is sleeping now, with mommy close. Wish her dreams of Alabama.
9 comments:
Julianna will be in Alabama....her home sweet home! Just can't wait for you guys to get home.
-Steve
My heart smiled!! So happy Julianna did not get upset being back at the place she had stayed.
Hugs to all 3 of you. Phil, you did good with your report of the day. Interesting!
Mary Ellen P.
That is so great that Julianna didn't pull away from her mommy and daddy. Big time score, and Alabama is just around the corner!! Yahoooooooooooo!!!!
Melody, Doug and Kali
My prayers have been answered!!
God is at work. Praise Him!
Love you all.
Rachel
Hi Phil and Sherry,
I love the picture of Sherry and Julianna at the window! How beautiful!
I'm glad things are going more smoothly and that Julianna really seems to be bonding!
Can't wait to see you Saturday!
Happy Easter!
I have a pile of used Kleenex here from crying - tears of joy that Julianna confirmed at the orphanage that you are her parents. And tears of joy that our God is indeed a great God. Julianna is one of those blessings that lets us know what the phrase "pressed down and over flowing" really means.
I also like the picture of Sherry at the window with Julianna; it speaks volumes. I remember Sherry writing in her blog about "looking out the window" when you were waiting on your TA. You are now no longer looking out the window waiting for your child.
So looking forward to seeing you all on Sat. We Grandmothers plan to get to the airport early enough to be on the front row. Love, Mom (AKA Grandma)
What a great story! I am grateful that everything is going well. What a blessing to read this post on your blog. Can't wait to meet your daughter!
-Breck, Laura, and the boys
Just a thought but have you checked her ears (or had them checked) by chance? I wonder if she may have an ear infection. That also might explain why she won't take a bottle or sometimes won't take the sippie cup - it hurts her ears when she sucks.
Can't wait to see you!!
Mary
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